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My wedding day
I imagined my wedding day would be filled with laughter, love, and tears of joy.
Rather, a former acquaintance of mine barged in and transformed the aisle into a battleground.
I am twenty-five years old, married two months ago, and I believed I had previously weathered every kind of family drama there is.
I’ve witnessed it all: courtroom screaming matches, custody disputes, divorces, you name it.
I so assumed that nothing could frighten me on my wedding day.
However, I was mistaken.
So, so incorrect.
Because just as my stepdad — the man who raised me, the man who taught me how to ride a bike and walk into a room with my head held high — was proudly walking me down the aisle, a shadow fell across the church doors.
The man who I hadn’t seen since I was six months old entered.
My father by birth.
Allow me to explain.
The word “dad” was always confusing to me as a child.
Rick, my biological father, abandoned my mother and me when I was a newborn.
No, it wasn’t because he was struggling to support us or because he was broke.
His business was doing well, and his family was comfortable.
According to him, he departed because he didn’t want “a screaming kid tying him down.”
When I was around six years old, Mom told me the story in a way that I will never forget.
At school functions, I had questioned why some children had two parents but I had just her.
“Baby girl, your dad chose freedom over family,” she whispered as she tucked me into bed and rubbed my hair.
“Freedom?” I questioned, my eyes wide.
“He wanted to travel, eat at fancy restaurants, and ‘find himself,'” she rolled her eyes at.
“Apparently, he couldn’t do that with a daughter.”
That was it.
No birthday cards, no phone calls, no child support.
He pretended that we were nonexistent.
The burden of everything rested on Mom.
I worked odd jobs on the weekends and double shifts at diners to make sure I had all I needed.
She was everything to me, my greatest friend, and my haven.
Dan then entered our lives when I was eight years old.
When he initially visited, he asked if I could teach him how to play Mario Kart and gave me a pack of bubble gum.
When he “accidentally” drove his kart off Rainbow Road three times in a row, I burst out laughing.
He became more than just Mom’s boyfriend over time.
He became my father.
When dad was teaching me to ride a bike, he would stabilize the handlebars and say, “Here, try again,”
He would smile and say, “You’re smarter than this math problem,” whenever I sobbed at the kitchen table over long division.
He’d give me a fist bump and mumble, “Go get ’em, kiddo,” before every basketball game.
“Why did the scarecrow win an award? Because he was outstanding in his field!” is one of his dad’s jokes that has become a staple in our family’s repertoire.
He was waiting on the porch with two pints of ice cream when I had my first heartbreak at the age of sixteen.
His voice was calm yet gentle as he told me, “Don’t let anyone who can’t see your worth tell you who you are.”
He was there as I moved into my dorm, obtained my driver’s license, and called home in tears over midterms.
He was there all the time.
Having a father like that is what people aspire to.
I was fortunate enough to receive one.
So when he held my arm on my wedding day and said in a whisper, “Ready, kiddo? Let’s make this walk one to remember,” I felt so grateful.
Let’s go back to last year.
At the lake where we went on our first date, my fiancé, Ethan, broke down in tears.
I yelled, “Yes!” before he could even finish the inquiry.
Plans for the wedding took over my life after that.
Everything was a whirlwind of enthusiasm, including the venues, flowers, and menus.
But there was no doubt in my mind: Dan would lead me down the aisle.
The night I asked him is still fresh in my mind.
Mom, Dan, and I were the only three of us eating dinner.
I cleared my throat halfway through the meal.
I trembled as I added, “So… um… I wanted to ask you something,”
Dan looked up with his fork partially in his mouth.
“What’s up, kiddo?”
I inhaled.
“Will you walk me down the aisle?”
His dish was clattered by the fork.
His eyes grew big, and he just looked at me for a moment as if he was still in shock at what he had heard.
Then, gently, the largest smile curved his lips.
He said, “Sweetheart,” in an emotional voice, “that would be the greatest honor of my life.”
I took his hand as I reached across the table.
“There’s no one else I’d want.”
Not a single thought of Rick ever occurred to me.
He wasn’t family to me.
He was a specter.
However, my phone buzzed three days prior to the wedding.
I felt sick to my stomach when I accessed Facebook.
A friend request.
from Rick.
I stared at the screen as I froze.
From the couch, Ethan said, “Who is it?”
I murmured, “No one,” and hit ignore.
I had trembling hands.
The story didn’t end there.
Notifications began to appear.
He was enjoying my old images, including some from my engagement, graduation, and college parties.
Whispering, “Creepy,” I tossed the phone to the side.
That night, Mom saw that my face had turned pale.
Asking, “What’s wrong?”
“Nothing,” I pretended to smile.
“Just wedding stress.”
I dismissed it.
It was my day.
He had no intention of spoiling it.
That’s what I thought, anyway.
The moment arrived.
Our small-town church wedding was attended by relatives, friends, and neighbors who had grown up with me; it wasn’t a lavish affair.
Joy and warmth hummed through the pews.
With tissues already clenched in her hands, my mother looked radiant in the front row.
As they rearranged bouquets, my ladies swished their dresses and murmured enthusiastically.
And before we even stepped, my dad, Dan, who was my dad in every way that mattered, stood strong in his suit, though his eyes were watering.
His voice trembled as he asked, “Ready, kiddo?”
With my throat too constricted to speak, I nodded.
The huge oak doors opened as the music grew louder.
The world suddenly slowed.
My heart raced with excitement and anxiety.
As we began our journey down the aisle, I steadied myself by holding onto Dan’s arm.
It seemed like a dream at every step.
Ethan’s eyes met mine, and I could see the smiles and the quiet gasps.
I had been waiting my entire life for this moment.
We had descended halfway when—
SLAM!
Behind us, the doors slammed open with such force that the frame shook.
Heads turned as gasps rang through the church.
And there he was.
Rick.
rushing in as though he owned the day.
He roared, “STOP!” on the walls.
“I’m her father. My blood runs in her veins. I regret the past, and I am here to be her dad again. Step aside.”
My knees swayed.
My bouquet shook in my hands as I gripped Dan’s arm.
Dan tensed.
His jaw was so clinched that I was afraid it would break.
The murmurs started.
“Is that her real dad?”
“I thought Dan raised her…”
“Unbelievable…”
With his chest swelled up, Rick strode forward, his hand extended toward me as though I would just drop Dan and step into his.
I was out of breath.
Between amazement and rage, my words stopped in my throat and closed.
“Don’t you dare move,” Dan said to himself as he squeezed my fingers.
However, Rick continued to arrive.
He grinned triumphantly, as if he had already prevailed in an unseen conflict.
“Daughter,” he added in a quieter, nearly practiced voice.
“This is our moment. Let me make things right. Let me walk you down the aisle.”
Again, gasps rippled.
While some attendees shook their heads in horror, others leaned forward, ready for drama.
Another voice broke through the confusion before I could even muster the courage to respond.
Dan wasn’t the one.
Ethan wasn’t the one.
Mr. Collins was the one.
Father-in-law to be.
As he straightened his jacket and gave Rick a cold, focused look, the crowd fell silent.
There was heat beneath the calmness of his voice, which was too quiet.
He said, “Oh, hi Rick,” as if he were introducing himself to an old neighbor rather than a man who had just attended his son’s wedding.
“Didn’t expect to see me here, did you?”
Rick stopped grinning.
His hand gently fell to his side as the color faded from his face.
“You…” he whispered.
“You shouldn’t—”
Mr. Collins interrupted him by waving his hand sharply.
“Maybe you’d like to explain to everyone why you really showed up today. Or shall I?”
I could hear the deep hush that descended upon the church.
The string quartet had also halted in the middle of a note.
With a puzzled expression on his face, Ethan stood at the altar and glanced between his father and Rick.
“Dad? What’s going on?”
Rick’s voice broke.
“I…I don’t know what you’re talking about.”
A sardonic smile curved Mr. Collins’ lips.
Across the seats, his voice rose and he said, “Oh, I think you do.”
“You didn’t come here out of love. You didn’t come here to make amends. You came here because you wanted me to see you play the role of ‘family man.'”
Once more, the whispers broke out.
“What is he talking about?”
“Wait…he knows him?”
“I knew something about this didn’t smell right…”
Rick gave a violent shake of his head.
“That’s a lie. I came for her. She’s my daughter!”
Mr. Collins, however, did not recoil.
His statements were clear and purposeful as he took a step forward.
He declared, “This man works for me,” leaving the reality lingering.
“Or rather, he did. He lost his own business years ago. No family, no stability. He’s been scrambling for scraps ever since. And when he begged me for a promotion to management, I told him one thing: prove you understand loyalty, prove you understand family.”
Rick opened his mouth, then shut it again.
He resembled a fish that was having trouble breathing.
The muttering were cut short by the sharpening of Mr. Collins’ voice.
“And what did he do? Instead of fixing his life with integrity, he tried to use my future daughter-in-law as a prop in his little charade.”
All over the room, gasps sprang out.
As my mind reeled, my bouquet slipped a little in my hands.
Everyone’s gaze returned to Rick, who was now flushed and had beads of sweat on his brow.
He said, “That’s not true!” with a broken voice.
“She’s my blood! She…she owes me this moment!”
Mr. Collins remained still.
His voice fell low, menacing.
“No, Rick,” he said, looking down at him.
“What you owe is the truth.”
Chaos broke out in the church.
Like thunder, gasps, murmurs, and even a few moans echoed through the pews.
While some visitors leaned closer one another and whispered angrily, others shook their heads in shock.
Rick became violently red in the face.
He poked Mr. Collins with a finger.
“That’s not true—”
Mr. Collins, however, refused to move.
His steady, piercing voice broke through the cacophony.
“Don’t bother lying. I set the trap, and you walked right into it.”
I felt a knot in my stomach.
The tightness in my chest made it difficult for me to breathe.
That was it.
He didn’t support me.
Not for reconciliation, not for sorrow, nor for love.
He came here to be himself.
in order to get promoted.
The room swayed.
My hands shook as I held my bouquet.
But from deep inside me emerged a voice—the voice of the girl who had sobbed for a man who never showed up, who had waited years for answers, and who had ultimately come to terms with the fact that she didn’t need him.
I raised my chin and took a stride.
Initially trembling, my voice got louder with each word.
“You weren’t there when I learned to ride a bike,” I said, focusing on Rick.
“You weren’t there when I had nightmares and needed someone to tell me I was safe.
You weren’t there when I graduated high school, or college, or when I got engaged.
You don’t get to show up now and pretend you’re my dad.”
My throat ached as I tried to speak.
“You don’t get this moment.”
There was silence.
Dan’s eyes were watery as he squeezed my hand.
Despite his trembling lips, he muttered, “That’s my girl.”
Then there was a gentle clap from someplace in the pews.
Then another.
And yet another.
Until all of a sudden, the church erupted in applause, which was sluggish at first but then loud as it filled the room.
Rick’s expression contorted.
Like a fish struggling to breathe, his mouth expanded and closed, but no sound emerged.
He recognized he had lost after looking at me, Mr. Collins, and the throng.
At last, he spun on his heel with a roar that was guttural.
The aisle echoed with his footsteps until—
SLAM!
He stormed out, leaving only quiet behind him as the church doors banged.
Once more, the music grew, first wobbly and then steady.
Dan cleaned his face and squeezed my hand comfortingly.
We took those last steps together.
Dan put my hand in his and his voice trembled as we got to Ethan.
Whispering, “Take care of my girl,” he said.
The ceremony went on, initially filled with apprehensive laughter but quickly replaced by joy, love, and warmth.
Later, Mr. Collins discovered me next to the dessert table during the reception.
He lowered his voice and drew me away.
“I’m sorry for the scene. I never meant for your day to start like that. But he needed to be exposed. You deserved better.”
His ferocity moved me to a feeble smile.
“Thank you,” I said in a whisper.
“For protecting me. For telling the truth.”
I went outside for some fresh air hours later as the night was coming to an end.
That’s when I heard Mr. Collins talking to Rick in the dark, his voice firm but quiet.
“You tried to manipulate me by using my family,” claimed the man.
“That’s not just unprofessional — it’s unforgivable. You’re done. Don’t bother coming back to work.”
Rick’s shoulders fell as he muttered something inaudible.
Then, deprived of the last remnant of strength he believed he possessed, he vanished into the night like a ghost.
What about me?
I redirected my attention to the laughter coming from the reception area.
With regard to Ethan.
In Dan’s direction.
In the direction of those who had always existed.
Because fathers are not made of blood.
Love does.
Dan showed up beside me, his eyes gentle.
After holding my hand, he continued, “Now, let’s get you back to your wedding, kiddo.”
Did you find this wedding drama to be astounding?
She didn’t anticipate Grandma stepping in and making her pay the ultimate price, but wait until you hear about the mother who left her daughter at the age of ten to pursue her “perfect son.”